Feeding is a daily responsibility.
A lot of children have a dream to own a special pet, but many parents do not allow them to because they think that their child is not responsible enough.
Don't give up though - all you need to do is to show that you are responsible and mature enough by following these suggested tips.
Steps...
Be honest with yourself.
Are you responsible enough?
Consider these questions and answer them truthfully:
Are you ready to feed, brush, pet, clean, bathe, play with the pet on a regular basis?
Are you ready to clean out their cage, bed, living area etc. regularly?
Many pets need daily cleanup to keep odors manageable.
If smells get too strong parents can get angry and might give you a punishment.
Do you have too many other commitments that might prevent you from having a pet and looking after it properly?
Think about sports, after-school activities, weekend homework, etc.
Research the animal you think you want (try your local library or the internet).
Write down what you learn.
This will prepare you care for the animal, help you choose the right animal, and demonstrate to your parents that you know what is involved.
What different kinds are there?
What are they like?
How long do they live?
How messy are they?
What sort of care do they require?
Don't forget the good parts. Are they affectionate?
Can they be trained to do tricks?
Can the whole family enjoy their company?
Make a list of things you will do to care for the pet.
Show this to your parents to demonstrate that you are ready, and see what they think about letting you have this animal.
Buy a small soft toy in the shape of whatever pet you want.
It may sound strange, but it will help.
Care for it and pretend it is real for however long you want to (it will show your parents that you have patience).
Don't keep asking if you can have a pet yet; just show that you are caring about the toy.
Some people are quite happy with the soft toy and may not even want a pet anymore and some may think it is too much work and give up altogether.
If you still want a pet, proceed to the next step.
Start off small.
Show your parents what you have done with your soft toy and if they approve, then politely ask them to buy you a fish.
The aim is to start small, then work up.
A fish doesn't smell and doesn't make noises.
You only have to feed it and change the water regularly.
If your parents still do not agree, then ask for sea monkeys. They are cheap and you only need to feed them.
Progress to larger animals.
After your parents have seen how you look after your small pets, slowly move onto the bigger, more high-maintenance animals.
If you only want a mouse, this will not take long, but if you want a dog then it will take longer.
Tell your parents about friends who have pets.
Don't overdo this, in case they think that your only reason for wanting a pet is because a friend has one.
Do use it show that someone your own age is already caring well for a pet.
If you are someone in your family is allergic to dogs, look into getting a dog that does not shed much (make sure the allergic family member has a chance to meet the pet before you take it home), or choose a different animal.
Perhaps a cat, bird, tarantula, or fish might be easier on the sinuses.
Many of these creatures also require less space and care than a dog.
Tips...
If your parents do not let you have a pet, don't throw a tantrum or beg incessantly.
It will not help at all.
Accept the fact that they say no at this point in time and be patient.
Do extra chores around the house to get extra cash.
Ask again in a few months and show them that you have earned the money to pay for the pet and its supplies.
This will definitely impress them!
Or wait until you are older.
If your family already owns a pet, show that you can care for it.
On a regular basis, fill its water bowl, clean out its sleeping area, tidy its play things and ask if you can help feed it.
All of these demonstrate that you can care for a pet.
Be patient with your parents - they do love you.
It may not be that your parents don't think you are responsible enough, but that they do not like pets or they don't feel they have have the room or time.
In this case, put on a smile and wait until you grow up, when you are the boss of the house.
You may then choose a pet.
If you are looking for a dog or cat, research local animal shelters.
(Petfinder.com is a good website to find pets in your area that are for adoption.)
This will show your parents that you are thinking beyond just what you want, but also thinking about how you can help an animal and the community.
Adopting a pet saves an animal who needs a home and family.
Also, adoption fees are frequently low and include vet fees and other expenses.
Watch Animal Planet and other animal shows to learn more about animals.
Tell your parents the things you have learned about animals.
Ask your parents if you can foster care for the kind of animal you want or another animal.
When they see you taking care of it they might agree that you are ready or not.
If you enjoy computer games or toys, try a Tamagotchi or join Neopets or Club Penguin and take care of virtual pets until you are able to have a real pet of your own.
If you're old enough, see if you can volunteer at an an animal shelter or pet-sit for neighbors' critters while they are on vacation.
These are both good ways to spend time with animals while you are waiting, and they will help you demonstrate your commitment and responsibility.
Pet sitting or dog walking could even earn you a little spending money.
Go and help out at a shelter to show your parents you are responsible.
If you get the pet you've been trying to get, follow through with your promises.
Sometimes that pet may not work out, but if you're responsible with it then your parents may let you get another.
Warnings...
Sometimes the reason you cannot have a pet (like a dog or cat) is not because you are not responsible.
Sometimes members of your family my have allergies that will cause extreme discomfort.
Keep in mind that some people have trouble with the idea of mice, rats, insects, and reptiles as pets.
If you run into a problem like this, consider choosing a different animal.
If you want a pet, look after it properly, treat it the way you would like to be treated.
Pets are a lot of work.
Make sure that you are prepared to own one.
Are you ready to devote lots of money and time to your pet?
If not, then maybe it's time to reconsider.
Pets requiring a huge investment of time and money include: St Bernard dog, horse, pony, poisonous snake/spider.
Be realistic about these sorts of pets and perhaps reconsider your desire for such a pet and change to one that is less expensive and is low maintenance.
Never get a pet without your parent's consent and knowledge.
Not only will this have them distrusting you (and you will get found out if you're trying to hide it) but they may be disinclined to let you have a pet in the future.
Hope it Helped!How do you convine your parent to get a pet that you really want???????????????
You can't - sorry to say but the truth of the matter is, if they don't want to spend their money on something you want then they don't have to. Instead, why don't you get yourself a job and save up some money for a pet (and college) then ask when YOU can help out with the costly vet bills and initial fees?How do you convine your parent to get a pet that you really want???????????????
Prove to them that you are responsible enough and dedicated enough to take care of an animal. I agree, they aren't play toys. You cant think its cute for a week then loose interest. Research the animal, see if you have what it takes. Understand that If you get a dog- its probably going to be with you for the next 12-14 years. Start by doing some chores around the house on a consistent basis. If they still wont let you- I suggest volunteering at an animal shelter. Then you get to have interaction with animals and help out at the same time. Good luck!
You could refer them to these sites, maybe...
Try these websites. They have questionaires that will help you find the perfect breed.
http://www3.dogbreedinfo.com/search.htm
http://www.selectsmart.com/DOG/
http://animal.discovery.com/breedselector/dogselectorindex.do
spend more time studying, learn how to spell and they might believe that you're responsible enough
that being said, as a mother, my kids not convincing me of ANYTHING i don't want to do. Pets aren't toys
All you do is beg until your on there last nerves. If that doesn't work you tell them how great it would be to have a new member to the family!
You can't. Their house, Their rules.
You start by RESEARCHING THIS QUESTION FIRST!!! There about a million other Q's just like this one.
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